I won't bother looking around again in the wikipedia or any other sites that define what is a friend. I will define it my own according to what I see and experience being in friendship. Sometimes, looking for another meaning on the net or on the shelves will bend you out of shape if those ideal sweet meanings are not meet with your current friends. You expect more than what is reality a friend can only do for you or what that person you treat as friend is contrary to your anticipation.
♥ A friend is someone who will believe in you when the world says it's hopeless and even your family. The only one left still congratulating you how many times you quit for the job and reapply.
♥ TRUST. that's the first ingredient for a friendship to blend well. Enough is better.
Don't expect too much and depend on your friend, if she's a real friend she knows you need her in your better or in your worst times.
Some say, if you've been bully by some pranks... • she will defend you or fight for you... if you're friend really make it on the battlefield, then lucky for you. Contrary to expectation, most friends remain rational, calm,or keep silent. They don't like to involve in such childish fights. Even it's good to picture out your friend can do that but actually that won't solve anything.
Some say , she's your crying shoulder • True. She is your handkerchief. You can sniff and sniff and cry all your heart out. But, not all the time. What if she's not in the mood, can you rely that tears of yours to her shoulder? Some friends too do not tolerate such weakness all the time. It's ok if it's oft. You should be more dependent to yourself, not to rely your weakness to her all the time.
Some say friend will always be by your side • Partly true. If you mean it that she's visible by your side oftentimes, then you might agree. What if she's a thousand miles away from you? Would you reckon the promises and sweet nothing words? My friend is over there. She's working abroad. And I'm here. We're certified friends! And I don't feel so alone. I made two simple music vids 'by your side - faber drive' ; 'tabi - paraluman ft. kean' just to remind her I'm still here. You might be confuse now... Thinking of her makes me feel she's just beside me. Afterall, we know our hearts beat as one. It's just how you think makes you feel it.
If everything turned down, who else you'll gonna depend on in this world? • Some say... friends esp. when family is the one that abandonned. Don't be hypocrite. You're making things more complicated and miserable if you rely to mild humans. Like what I previously stated , depend more to yourself. Your friend is also a human. Think of the worst possibilities that will gonna happen to your life ... then evaluate if that friend of yours can be count on. She may support you but not your ultimate shield. She can lend you her strength but be tougher too in that way she might defend you all the way.
Some friends promise to lend their hand when your down and outcast. WHO??? There is no other human who can lend their hand all the time. I bet.All of us have different things to do everyday, everytime. Think of your INVISIBLE YET VISIBLE FRIEND. Treat HIM as your friend. HE's just there all the time watching you. Sometimes, we never think of Him because what we need is the one who can appear right before our sight, who will embrace us because we're hurt.
FRIENDS COME AND GO. True. No matter what kind of a friend she is, still appreciate her value. Afterall, each of them leave us lessons and experience that certainly we can use in our next stopover of friendship not just that even in our daily life. If you observed, some bitter friendship learned you to become more pleasant person. .. or helped you grow.
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